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Here’s the thing: If you want a real way to raise a great dog, then I have something to show you. I offer everything from phone consultations to full service, nose-to-tail relationships, and while I can’t say I’ve “fixed” every dog I’ve ever met, I know I’ve helped them and their families go as far as they wanted or were ready to go. The way I work with people and dogs comes down to a few simple ideas:
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the first, being get clear about what your intention for going outside is. Are you going out for a business walk? (“Pee Here Now,” clients, pay close attention!) Or are you going out for exercise/play/connection? This matters in the way you set expectations for your dog. This can determine whether or not you have a successful outcome. If your dog expects to go for a long walk to the park every time you put the leash on, you might be in for a longer walk than you bargained for. The city is full of reasons for dogs to not take an opportunity to go to the bathroom… and rain is one of the most compelling of them. It’s difficult to just go to the bathroom right in the middle of everything and when your tense because you don’t like rain and being cold and wet, it’s not any easier!
The second is taking a minute to make sure all of your needs are met before taking your dog outside. Since, in the city, we can’t just let our dogs out to go to the bathroom and get exercise, we have to take them out on a leash. You’d be amazed the difference a little self-care before a walk in the rain can make. Are you wearing the right gear? Have you used the bathroom yourself? Are you actually awake? These things can make the difference between whether or not you enjoy the walk and therefor whether or not your dog does. I keep a cap and slip on rain boots right next to the door with my leashes and poop-bags and a towel. This way I don’t have to spend time hunting around for them while my dog does the I-Gotta-Pee dance.
Third:: Encourage a moment of play just before entering the building. This slight increase in energy will encourage your dog to shake off, leaving the street water on the sidewalk, rather than inside your apartment. Ask me how I figured out that one… I keep numerous towels next to my door to wipe off feet and wet coats… not just to save my furniture, but also because as much as I love ‘em, Wet Dog is not a fragrance I’m going out of my way to experience with any kind of regularity.
I’m sure this is not exhaustive and that you have questions, so… Let’s have ‘em? ((Especially if they are house-training questions))
What sucks about our relationship to tensions is when we get stuck. Tension is designed to move into flow and flow into tension. When we get stuck in tension we are stressed and tired and have a short fuse. When we get stuck in flow we are passive and disconnected and lethargic, like we have given up… And that’s because we have: we have given up tension.

So my friends up and went to Argentina for a month, leaving in my care, their ornery, cat-killing, drama queen, blue-nosed pit, named Jada. Bitch. She is resistant, like pits often are but she’s also dubious, in general. What’s up with this dog???
You know, I see stuff all the time that says, “Save the Pits!!!” Or, “Save this Poor Dog!!!” And what really bothers me is that we don’t have to save them from euthanasia or neglect or any of that crap, we just have to stop doing it. It’s not that hard, we just have to find a way… I mean, what is it? Money? Really? I just don’t buy that. We need to stop fighting and find solutions.
The real issue from what I can see is that they suffer. I don’t mean from neglect or abuse or illness or anything like that. I mean from just being weird… and Pits do this better than anyone, except maybe Chihuahuas. And when I say, “suffer,” I mean SUFFER. If you know pits you know what I’m talking about. It’s that groan from across the room on the couch because it’s 3 o’clock. Or that trauma about going through a doorway at the same time as you. Or the unbearable wait for the right spot to pee, that can drag on for days. I mean the most pathetic, Nobody-Loves-Me look that shames even adolescent goths and their razor blades. This is serious! Has anyone considered a support group or a suicide hotline for these, the most depressed of dogs?
So, since I won’t even try to endure this for a month, I’m going to have to work with her… And Save Jada, from Herself. I’ll keep you posted.
Oh, by the way, guys: You forgot to leave me her helmet.

I am going to be in Brooklyn for the rest of 2011. I’ll be working with a few select clients over the next few months. If you get what I’m doing and want to work with me to deepen the experience, or amp up your training, give me a call. I am still working with a couple of families upstate so I am not limited to Brooklyn and Manhattan.
Look forward to hearing from you.
Hey Everybody.
Just a quick update:: We still have no power and no indication of when it will come back on. All the dogs and healthy and happy… and so are we. We didn’t lose any trees, just stuff from the freezer and fridge, which could end up really sucking. We’ll check back and update again as we can.
Well, between yesterday and today we had 8 inches of rain summarily dumped on us and they say it’s gonna keep coming. The streets are very wet with their gutters flooded out in some places and most of the sidewalks are tiny streams. I know this because I’ve been outside five times since the rain began because I am responsible for a 40lb, adorable coyote-lookin’ mutt named Taschi, who by the way would very much prefer to go to the bathroom in her apartment than in the pouring rain and gusty winds. In fact twice, while I was pretending to endure the Moby Dick storm she tried to pull me back to the building.
I think Ahab would certainly laugh at my difficulty and the brave gentlemen from A Perfect Storm might not have even noticed the weather. It’s not that this storm is so horrible for me either because I’ve been hearing stories about peoples’ houses flooding and that makes me very sad for them. But there’s this overwhelming awareness that grabs hold of every New York City dog owner on days like this as we walk around in circles behind a creature who doesn’t like the arrangement any more than we do, trying to keep our eyes open long enough to keep from walking into a tree or in front of a bus. At some point we all think, ” I should have gotten a cat.”


I’ve been going through some documents in preparation for our book and I found this response that I posted on Craigslist a number of months ago. As uncomfortable as it might be to read, It was suggested that I share it with you:
Dear Original Poster of this traumatizing garbage:
First I would like to thank you for what you mean to do. Thank you for caring about animals. Thank you for wanting to mobilize people to care for animals. Thank you for taking the time to make us all aware that animal cruelty is still happening in the world and that there are animals living in dangerous circumstances. This is both necessary and thankless work and I, for one appreciate it.
And still, I must insist that you practice a little awareness of your true aim and consider whether you have achieved anything other than traumatizing anyone who goes onto the craigslist community board. This post isn’t going to inspire anyone to do anyything except stay away from this board. I know this isn’t the only one of it’s kind, and i hope all of the other advocates are reading this. If you are able to really consider this, you could really do something wonderful.
Do you remember when you read that article for the first time? What was it like? How did it feel? In your body…did you get the same shitty, sinking feeling that I did? Did it feel like someone put an anvil on your chest? Did it energize you or did it take energy away?
This experience is every bit as real for your nervous system as was the rape for that dog…and it is real to all of the readers of this as well. I ask you, did your anger at this make you any more capable of doing anything globally to improve life for animals? My guess is no.
And what are you going to do to prevent things like this? I would assert that this is not a systemic issue of animal cruelty but a really awful story about rape and it shouldn’t be here.
We all know that there is a persistent beat of love throughout the world to get in tune with. We all know that things happen that really suck. We all want things to be better for animals and for people. I think these are things we can mutually agree upon. I personally look forward to a revolution/evolution of people being aware enough to make excellent decisions and do what’s right for them all the time.
Here is my point: If you want to help animals, don’t do it by hurting people. There are currently no dogs reading CL:::only humans. And I think if you want humans to act they must be trained to sit in beauty and well-being, just like dogs. Your article trains the people who read it to look for evidence that the world sucks and that people suck…so why do anything at all?
Shift gears. Do it now. For yourself. For others.
INSPIRE.
ENTREAT.
INVITE.
CREATE.
As motivated as you are it is most amazing to imagine what you can do when you start looking forward in an inspiring way.
Good luck and be well.
From someone who loves you as much as you love animals.
This is not a how-to for using a dog crate. I am working on one as I write this. This is more of a discussion of how to think about crates. I have found that the way people think about crates determines much about how they use them and therefor a has a significant impact on whether or not their use of them is effective. Let’s cut to the chase here. I’m not going to try to convince you that crates are ok or not ok. That is really up to you. The controversy in the crate concept really lies more in how we use them rather than that we use them.
if you’re the sort of person that finds this abhorrent, don’t do it. You’ll either find another way or your circumstances will get bad enough that the crate doesn’t seem so bad. Most of the time people are concerned about using a crate it’s because they associate it with jail. Without going into a big thing about this, I will tell you that chances are pretty good that unless you create this association for him, your dog will not think of the crate in this way.
If you are just training a puppy or a dog to a crate because you think you are supposed to… right thing, for the wrong reason. If you are training your dog/puppy to a crate because you travel and you know that you don’t want to wait until you have to use a skill to train it, you are on the money. You could be correcting a house-training miscommunication… reasonable, so long as you are using the crate in a useful context as part of a larger plan, and the crate is not your entire plan… or you could be using the crate as part of a training program designed to help your dog become more stable and secure: awesome. Whatever your reason there are some things that you should know about crates, as a training aid, lifestyle choice, and what they can and cannot do.
So, crates… crates offer security and containment. My point here, is that neither is really possible without the other. My other point is that your attitude will carry a lot more influence than the type of equipment or even the schedule you make to use it. I will be releasing a Dog-Dojo “Instructions for Using Crates to Secure and Raise Well Adjusted Dogs” thingy in the next few weeks… stand by.
So, people have been asking me how my approach differs from other trainers. It’s simple. I don’t do any dog training. This video is a typical example of dog training in action. In order to show you what I’m talking about, I’ll give you point by point.
* Dogs don’t jump because they’re excited and that’s how they show us that they’re happy to see us. It’s energy gone awry and has very little to do with being happy.
* Very few dogs jump because we literally taught them to do it when they were puppies. If that were true we could just teach them to sit when anyone came into the room and that would be it. While it makes sense, because we do teach them to do it, dogs act very differently when they are performing a trained behavior than they do when they are on auto-pilot.
*Dogs don’t generalize distinctions, “These humans want us to jump on them.”
*The idea that everybody that comes into contact with your dog is going to be consistently one way is ludacris. It’s also not a good idea when you’re asking everyone who comes into contact with your dog to give them an unpleasant experience. (squeezing the paws is not awesome.)
I could go on for hours with this guy. Instead, I’ll offer this: To jump or not to jump is a choice a dog can make when they aren’t wriled out of their minds just because someone had come to the door. This is third or fourth grade stuff. And it’s something that is better taught than corrected. But even if you’re to the point where you have a problem, the first thing you want to do is get your dog used to working with you about their energy.
That’s enough for now. Till next time… send questions!

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It’s a great question. I’m not surprised he’s rockin’ it like that. If you stick to your plan, discomfort will necessitate that he relieve himself at some point. If you take him on a walk, you’ll just teach him to hold it, expecting that eventually you will provide him with the circumstance that contain the very specific criteria that he has for deciding it’s safe to pee. This is a common issue for dogs with woodsy and urban residences. The work we are doing with him up here combined with a lack of flexibility in this area will get you the results you seek. He’ll probably pee after dinner. A little tip: pull on his leash, more than usual, as your taking him to his spot. Walk straight to it. When you get there, give a little yank and say (in an excessively happy voice) “Ok!” Ann then release your pulling hold, allowing for slack on the leash, and turn away. That should stack the cards in his (and your) favor.
Keep us posted. It very well might take the better part of a week for him to get this entirely. In the meantime, the ideal crate time-limit is about 4 hours.
Hope this helps.
And with that, I hope this is helpful to you in some way…
… Well I moved in with my bf since he’s got a job now so we can get a bigger place and a ladys husband left her and left his shepherd with her and so I decided 2 adopt her since she said she dosent care for the breed well anyways my bf decided 2 get 2 kittens and my shepherd wants to eat them we have 2 keep the kittens in a room and she waits outside the door we tried to muzzle her and she still is determined 2 eat them. He loves his kittens but I love my dog and don’t wana give up on her this time. Sorry so long any suggestions. Thank you!
THE ANSWER
how old is the dog?
then you put the gsd on a leash, and get her to sit. keep her on you left and in a seated position. if you can’t do this in other situations where there is a compelling distraction, get that down first and then return to this. the key to the success of this thing is control of her attention. if you don’t have that you can’t do anything about this situation and you should consider placing one of the species before someone gets hurt.
Once you do and you can keep her calm, pick up the gentler of the two kittens and while holding it with the scruff and at the belly present his/her butt to the dog’s nose. Give the dog a second (really a second, if you linger too long the whole thing will change into a cage fight) to sniff it and then take the kitten away and secure it in another room. Don’t reward or congratulate the dog. Do this three or four times a day until it starts to get easier. I don’t like using a muzzle for this kind of work because it puts the dog in a shitty mood already, which doesn’t help things.
let us know how it goes.
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Kiela
I‘m sure this isn’t the only problem their having with this dog, but like many of us they just assume it has to be that way and keep their bar pretty low. Ultimately, this kind of a situation will diminish if they get some better communication in place. German Shepherd dogs aren’t really designed for that brand of crazy so building a better relationship and settling her would probably change her tune significantly.
Good luck to them. and the kitties.

I had a great experience the other day. I’m so excited about it that I want to post the result here.
I did a consultation with an extended family and their two new Australian Shepherd brothers. The two boys couldn’t be more different; one being easy going and slightly aloof and the other timid, suspicious and slightly threatening. The people were great. There were three of them and they were all engaging and interesting.
What happened that was so interesting to me was that one of the women in the family kept repeating the same question to me, ” What do we do?” and, “So, how does this apply to the dog?” and, “What is the training part?” And I kept answering her in the most literal and respectful way that I could. I would say, “Well, the first piece is to teach you self-operation so that when you go to do it with Leo you’ll know what to look for.” And she didn’t understand what i was talking about so I offered to show her. I said that the first part to learn of self-operation was less about something I could describe but more about an experience to be had. She kept giving me cues to continue with my “explanation” but the reality was that what I was talking about was not already a part of her experience.
But that’s the thing that was so cool. I couldn’t shake the feeling that I wanted to be able to translate better so that she could really grasp what i was talking about. And it was in thinking about how to deliver this stuff in a way that made sense to people who weren’t calling me for a personal evolution that i came up with it:
And with that I am going to go and relax.
"I've mostly abandoned the "Dominant/Subordinate" model because of the antiquated and irrelevant notions that often come along with it. After 29
years, I’ve realized it’s just not that simple- or maybe it’s more simple than that. I believe in bribery. I’ve seen it.
But I don’t use it in my training.
I think that what we call dog training is silly and not particularly effective. Oh sure, it accomplishes what it means to, but if you’re paying really close attention there’s nothing authentic about it. It asks dogs to be robots...and I like dogs more (than that).
Our goal in training is to induce and habituate a way of being for our dogs (with)in which "bad behavior" doesn’t come up. I call this way of being "CoOperative." In this model, behavior is a symptom. CoOperation has two parts: The Handler and The Dog, both present and working together. To teach this, I demonstrate the results and hold the space for my clients to establish CoOperation, first in themselves and then in their dogs."
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To her New York-based clients she is "New York City’s Dog Whisperer," a moniker she earned on ABC’s 20/20 in 2003. She has privately worked with over 700 dogs and this year will mark 29 years of training. In addition to her media exploits, Kai has spent the better part of the last eight years in pursuit of a deeper understanding and application of the human/dog connection. The result of her work is the service she brings to the doorsteps and dog runs of NYC.
Kai has developed a method of raising and rehabbing dogs that she calls The CoOperative Approach. Focused on character development and energy management, her approach has sometimes been called martial arts for dogs. She puts her clients’ attention on what they want to achieve and moves them and their dogs endlessly in pursuit of that. Her clients call it "training from the inside out." The CoOperative Approach is extremely effective regardless of how old a dog is or how steeped in the problem they are.
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About Monique
Monique Devine is concierge, master of logistics, graphic artist, and photographer at Dog-Dojo. She is the primary caretaker in-residence for our dogs and handles keeping all of our clients up to date. Her current project is creating art for the Dog Medicine Cards, which exclusively feature her work.
About Andrew
Andrew Wilchak is technology wrangler, web developer, copywriter, and photographer at Dog-Dojo. He's gotten a lot of experience creating our web presence and rescuing wayward computers.
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